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T.D. Jakes's insights and expressions are balm for every woman's soul. As he explains so compassionately, we have lost sight of "the lady," and it is a loss that continues to buffet women and misdirect men. Jakes eschews condemnation and exposes the lies that have cloaked women in sorrow, helping women to stand in the beauty, strength, and confidence God intended.

Bishop Jakes, church founder, pastor, and author of numerous books, including the bestselling Woman, Thou Art Loosed!, structures this book in three parts. In the first, he gently takes the hand of every woman who has been ill-used, crippled in the innermost being, and shows her what is truly beautiful about the feminine. In part two, he opens the door for communication between husband and wife, lover and friend. Part three brings alive the passion of the Lord for women, this most exquisite of His creations.

Much has been lost. Weep with Bishop Jakes over the pain to which women have succumbed. But loss is not forever. In fact, any woman reading this book will likely feel something emerge within her, something long forgotten but something that rings of truth. --Ann Weinheimer 

From Booklist
Jakes (best-selling author of Woman, Thou Art Loosed whose weekly television program airs on Black Entertainment Television) claims to have knowledge about women healing the wounds of previous disappointments in their lives to rebuild themselves from the inside out and improve their relationships. He examines what he calls a woman's three most important relationships: with herself, with the man in her life, and with God. Accordingly, Jakes divides the book into three sections, offering inspiration for women to meet the demands of self-improvement, relationships with men, and spiritual growth. He emphasizes the importance of self-love, of women moving beyond the notion that what they can most contribute to others is slavish dedication without consideration of their own needs. In relationships with men, Jakes stresses the need for communication and mutual respect for the differences between men and women and the differences rendered by individual personalities. Regarding spirituality, Jakes cautions against attending to career and family at the exclusion of spiritual development. The overriding theme is that women should maintain a balance in their lives, not overemphasizing one aspect to the detriment of others. Jakes, pastor, speaker, and author of several inspirational books, has made a particular career of exploring the spiritual and emotional needs of women. Vanessa Bush 

Book Description
In his million-copy bestseller, Woman, Thou Art Loosed!, Bishop T. D. Jakes showed women how to heal the wounds of the past and to forge forward into their futures. Now, he has written his most urgent book yet, a progressive next step and the book millions of women have been waiting for. In this stirring call to healing and empowerment, Jakes shows us how society demands girls and women to be perfect, to be sweet, to be sexy, to be submissive, to be pristine, to be anything and everything but the one thing God wants them to be--real. He argues that females are often subjected to verbal, physical, and emotional abuse, which they then carry around in their minds and their hearts, causing them to feel like they have no place to go and no worth of their own. But Bishop Jakes has a message of Good News and hope for these women. He tells them that God has a plan for each of them, that each is holy in the arms of her Lord. His book delves deeply into the three most important relationships in a woman's life: with 

herself, with her man, and with God. Jakes gives clear direction that enables and empowers women to be restored in all of their relationships without any residual side effects from the past. He redirects the expectations characteristic of failed relationships by discussing the many things women often desire from their mate that can only be fulfilled by God. This book is written for women who desire to reach their goals, maximize their God-given potential, and still have someone with whom to share them. Accessible, sensitive, practical, inspirational--the amazing T. D. Jakes has written a book that women have been praying for, with a powerful 
message of hope and transformation. 
 

The Lady, Her Lover, and Her Lord
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